Excercise can speed up weight loss a lot. Get a set of weights and do 15 minutes a day of weight lifting and body building esp important for women . You will lose 300 calories a day on top or nearly 2000 a week ie 100,000 a year or nearly 30 pounds of fat a year just by doing that !
For example if you want to lose 20 pounds (10 kilos) you need to lose 20x3500 or 70,000 calories in all. So your 100 calories a day diet might look like this:
January 2 
Breakfast - never skip this , it gets the furnace going !
2 boiled eggs                                             160 calories 
2 toast lightly buttered                                  160
Coffee with no sugar under 50 cals                          0
                                                                           .......
Total so far                                              320
  
Lunch
Chicken salad                                             280
                                                       .........
Total                                                     600
Mid afternoon
Apple under 50 cals so not counted                            0
Evening meal
Lamb Casserole                                             400
Bed time snack             
Biscuit + Milk 1 cup                                          100
                                                                    .........
Total intake for the day                                 1100
One mile -2km fast walk              minus                  100
                                                                   ..........
Net Intake                                                         1000
Subtract from the 2000 needed          
Net loss for the day     2000-1000    =            1000 calories 
NEVER skip the excercise otherwise your metabolism
 will slow down and when you stop dieting you will put 
on all the weight and more !
      More to follow if requested
From 6 months IRON is important in your baby's diet and the baby gets most of its iron from solid food. There is not enough in milk.
Iron improves a baby's appetitie and helps it fight off infection.Drinking only milk can prevent your baby getting enough iron for its needs.
Toddlers can have a bottle of milk in the morning and before going to bed but do NOT give it milk at night when he wakes up ! It just becomes a habit and he will not eat properly in the day.
Milk and rice have too little iron . Cereal in the morning with a Vitamin C drink is a good source of iron as is meat.If your child eats vegetables , pulses , fruits , meat , eggs and cereals and even if its only small amounts he will be having a healthy diet.
Sweets , crisps ,fizzy drinks , biscuits should be avoided or kept for a treat after meals.Avoid underfeeding the baby . Its healthier for a baby to be a little bit overweight.